Is it ok to masturbate when you’re in a relationship?

Many believe masturbation is just something to do when you aren’t in a relationship, but this shouldn’t be the case. Masturbation is healthy and should be part of a healthy relationship. Now no one is saying you should masturbate instead of enjoying time with your lover.

But masturbation shouldn’t stop just because you’re with someone. This can be especially true for women. Frequent sexual release makes your body desire it more often. So, if you desire sex more often both you and your partner will be able to share those intimate moments regularly.

Masturbation doesn’t have to be a solo act. If you’re in a relationship you can do it together, or watch one another. It can
definitely be a way to heat things up. Or, you can switch and give your woman and hand, while she gives you one. This is particularly interesting as you both may start to try and match the speed of the other depending on how aroused it is making you.

Masturbation can be a stand alone act, or part of other things. It can be something that leads up to sex, OR, you can give your partner a
hand as part of a nice relaxing full body massage. Now doesn’t that sound great?

Many have a problem with their partner masturbating. They feel that if their partner has to masturbate that they are not satisfying them. And this can cause many problems. We should be open and accepting of masturbation. As a matter of fact we should encourage it. Think how much at ease you would feel if not only did your partner encourage you to masturbate when the mood struck, but they also wanted to watch and/or join you?

Some might ask, how do you know if your partner masturbates? Well, if they’re human (especially males), it’s more likely than not, that they masturbate.

What about bringing up masturbation within a relationship and asking your partner to do it in front of you? Well, this is a touch? subject for some, but it doesn’t have to be. Bring it up at a time when you feel comfortable talking about sex. Just speak your mind and tell your partner what you’re thinking. And remember, take it slow! We mostly view masturbation as a solo act, so many are going to be initially resistant to this idea.

How do I get my partner to stop masturbating? This is the wrong approach to this issue, and is something many feel shouldn’t be done. A relationship should be the perfect place to explore your sexuality. This is what a relationship is about. Many of us are carrying around ideals from previous generations, but this doesn’t need to be the case anymore.

Masturbation is good, healthy FUN. It should simply be a part of your sex life and shouldn’t be the issue it is today. We’re no longer strictly against sex before marriage, and yet masturbation is supposed to be taboo, especially within a relationship? Does that make sense to you? Don’t worry, it doesn’t make sense to anyone who really thinks about it.

Masturbate, and enjoy yourself and your partner. It’s fun, and it can be great to incorporate into your routine.

So, relax, take a deep breath, and give yourself a hand, and masturbate to your heart’s content!

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