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Masturbation has been a taboo for ages. Only recently it is becoming more acceptable. But even now many aren’t accepting of it. But, why? If sex, especially premarital sex is ok… then why not masturbation?
We’ve all heard the myths and taboo’s. Some of us are still influenced by them. A lot of it comes from religion and society trying to control people’s behavior. But today sex is so wide spread these old taboo’s are fading away.
Many sex therapists and researchers tell us masturbation is healthy, and SHOULD be a part of our lives. Not only is it fun and pleasurable, but it teaches us about our own sexuality and what we desire. How can you be a good lover if you don’t know how to push your own buttons? Not only that but, masturbation is good for the body.
Sexual release is something the body needs. Now it may not be a direct need like food and water, but it’s still a need. Regular masturbation has been seen to reduce and even eliminate headaches, stress, and give people a healthy happy outlook.
Many say, they’d rather just have sex. Sure, that’s the idea. But when you don’t have a partner masturbation is a great way to go. But don’t let it end there. Masturbation is a fun activity even WITH a partner. You can enjoy watching your partner get off, or even jump in and assist them. It’s a great way to further understand your body and the nature of your orgasm.
You can masturbate with your hand, or use a device designed for such a thing. There are plenty of sex aids that are great for masturbation and can give you a little something extra that you can’t get naturally with sex. It’s a nice treat once in a while.
So don’t be afraid of masturbating. You should be afraid NOT to. Have you noticed how relaxed and great you feel after orgasm? I’m not just talking about in the next 5 mins, but the entire day. It’s nice, isn’t it? Well, take advantage of it. Masturbate, and learn more about yourself, or your partner.
It’s nothing to be ashamed of… rather it’s something to be proud of. Masturbate and enjoy yourself! it’s these feeling of shame during masturbation that manifest when people are shy during sex. You should be more open and honest with yourself. You enjoy the pleasure, so admit it, and ENJOY it.
Now remember. Different strokes for different folks. ^_^
But remember. It’s called choke the chicken – not KILL the chicken. All good things in moderation.
And age shouldn’t be much of an issue when it comes to masturbation. From the onset of puberty til you’re nearing death you can enjoy some nice time with YOU and your hand(s). It’s no surprise that this sexual release makes us feel better and shows. Why do you think women are often attracted to a man who is in a relationship?
The aura he’s giving off from being sexually and emotionally satisfied is sending out signals. And women often respond to this. This should be a good clue that masturbation can be a good thing. But it won’t do you much good if you’re ashamed of doing it. You’ll just make yourself feel WORSE due to the guilt. And that’s definitely not good.
So take some time to get better acquainted with your hand. You’ll enjoy yourself, and your body will thank you!