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1f98466c302f63031813ee027dd6a494 Orgasm vs. Ejaculation
What’s the difference between the two? Also known as delaying ejaculation!

If you’re looking to learn about orgasm and ejaculation control you’ve come to the right place. Typically the best advice is to have sex often and try and learn while you’re in the moment. But sometimes that’s just not possible, and not all partners are as patient as we might need them to be. So you might be thinking, is there anyway to build up some control, so that you are in a better position when you’re having sex? And the answer is YES.

How? Well, the Fleshlight is the answer to that question. Not only is the Fleshlight designed to feel like the touch of a woman’s lips, pussy, or ass, but it was also designed with men’s concerns in mind. Men worry about being lovers and having control over their ejaculation and the Fleshlight does JUST that.

You may be thinking what’s the difference? Well, for many men the 2 are one in the same, due to the fact that they occur at the same time. But this isn’t the case.

Ejaculation is the physical element when you cum. When you shoot your load. Ejaculation is when semen rushes and shoots out of the penis.

Now orgasm? That’s an entirely different beast. Orgasm is that euphoric feeling you get.

OK that’s nice, so what does this do for me?

Understanding the difference is KEY to having a better orgasm as well as controling and delaying ejaculation.

So, have you ever heard about women being able to have multiple orgasms? Well, this is key to understanding how you can have them too.

The idea here is NOT to focus on trying to cum, but instead on enjoying the experience for as long as possible.

This means NOT jumping the gun when you feel yourself getting closer, but instead to relax, and maybe slowdown a little. Try it! You’ll notice wave after wave of pleasure running up your spine. When you ejaculate it works like much of your body in the sense that it has a cut off point. You have to stimulate yourself JUST enough in order to ejaculate. However if you are just short of this what you’ll get instead is an orgasm.

You may likely have experienced these waves before, but were so concerned with ejaculating that you didn’t stop to smell the roses. There’s no trick or magic behind delaying ejaculation. You must simply take control and get to know your body. After so much stimulation, even if it’s not enough to make you ejaculate… it will definately cause an orgasm or two. Delaying your ejaculation goes hand in hand with not over-focusing on it.

This is nice because you don’t have to stop. You can continue right through the orgasm and soon after get another. Understanding this is a great way to last longer with a woman as you will feel immense pleasure and be able to continue pleasing her at the same time.

Not only will you be able to last longer by delaying ejaculation, but you’ll also be able to enjoy the full potential of your penis. With such extended sessions of pleasure, your penis will rise to it’s limit. This is quite different from a normal erection. We call it an erection once a man is hard, but with prolonged stimulation you will become fully engorged. The result? A LONGER, THICKER penis. Doesn’t that sound fabulous?

Oh, and by the way, after so much build up and having those orgasms, you’ll be able to fully appreciate ejaculation, because now you have build up to the point where you are now like a geyser!

When you have an orgasm and ejaculate together your body essentially plateaus and quickly drops. But when you just have an orgasm that energy stays high, and it’s easy to roll into the next orgasm. SO, if you continue and have multiple orgasms and ejaculate for the finale you’ll notice it takes much longer for those great feelings to subside. Much longer than when you simply ejaculate and orgasm together 1 time. Another alternative is to just focus on the orgasm and not ejaculate at all.

You might ask why would I want to do that. Well, think about it this way. Imagine those feelings lingering around for HOURS. Since you didn?t ejaculate (or cum) your body reaches close to that plateau but never goes over. So you remain in this state for a long period of time. Imagine that!!!

This is something many who are involved with tantric sex mention but us normal folks ten to discount them. Sounds like nonsense right? Well trust me it’s not. It’s also well known that women tend to respond favorably to a man who appears sexually satisfied. Ever notice that when you’re single no one will give you the time of day.

But once you’re with a woman, now every other woman can smell it on you and wants a piece. It’s social priming so to speak. If a woman is sleeping with you it means you must be decent since you got her. So other women want to see what all the HUBBUB is about. Now think about pleasuring yourself in a way that literally makes you glow and give off good vibes. Women will immediately smell this on you and be DRAWN to it like flies to shit.

So, simply trying to delay ejaculation is akin to missing the bigger picture. There’s more in it than just lasting longer for your woman. By understanding your body and being able to better control and feel what’s going on you more than get your jollies! So think less about delaying ejaculation, and more about fully appreciating the experience.

Give it a try, relax and just go with it and see what happens. You’ll be pleasantly surprised!

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