What is OTK Spanking (AKA “over the knee spanking”) like?

Spanking for some is about bringing something extra to the relationship. Some are content with a light smack on the tush, while others completely indulge in whips, chains, tying each other up, and toys. So if you’re going to do these things just be safe and make sure you have a way to tell each other when it’s too much. Other than that, have fun!

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• Spanking can take on many different forms.
• As a sign of authority (punishment)
• Playfully (congratulating a fellow teammate)
• Erotic

Many of us are aware of the first, authoritative. This form of spanking is typically found within parent-child, teacher student, master-slave, and guard-convict relationships. Spankings here represent a punishment designed to mold behavior.

Playful spankings are fairly common in today’s culture. We sometimes pat a friend on the butt when saying hello or good bye, when congratulating a teammate, or just another means of rough play. This type of spanking can typically be seen in the forming of bonds of friendship.

Erotic spankings are the third type. This type of spanking doesn’t need to stem from the other two. Erotic spankings can fall anywhere within a wide spectrum typically with a partner. So it can be anything from a soft sexually suggestive pat, to a welt on your partner’s butt as you fuck them as hard as possible.

Many ask why would you want to mix something painful like spanking with sex?

Well pleasure and pain have been argued as the same sensation, that just appears on different levels of the same spectrum. So, pleasure can be thought of as softer sensations, like a lover blowing in your ear or feeling their tongue graze your skin, while pain can be thought of as anything that breaks the threshold and is no longer considered pleasure like spanking someone too hard, when they only wanted a light patt on the butt.

So, some just have a higher threshold for pain so they can appreciate things like spankings as part of their sexual repertoire. What kinds of spankings are there?

• over the knees (OTK) or across the lap
• stooped over a chair or couch
• on hands and knees (bed or floor)
• kneeling on a bed or ottoman, stooped over with hands on the floor
• diaper position (genital exposure to enhance humiliation)
• bent under the arm of the spanker
• lying face down on a bed

But lets not forget spankings don’t have to only include your hand(s). You can spank someone with a hairbrush, paddle, belt, cane, whip,
switch, stick, gloves, ruler, etc.

Many enjoy spanking as part of role playing and enjoy playing a part. In the case of role playing it’s often about the desire to be dominant or submissive. So, spanking here is about trust and control. For others? It’s more about enjoying the contact.

Like any things, spanking can be a fun addition in the bedroom. But it helps to clearly explain what you want to get out of it. And at the same time you should be mindful of your partner/lover, so they aren’t hurt any more than they want. It’s a fine line and communication is the best thing.

• You can spank them in a house,
• You can spank them like a mouse
• You can spank them here or there
• You can spank them anywhere

So, I ask. What did the 5 fingers say to the ass?

SMACK!!

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