Q: Why Do Men Become Sleepy After Orgasm/Masturbation/Sex?

Short of giving you a lesson in biology, lets just say that is how the male body reacts. Of course everyone is different, but often after sexual activity a chemical is released that makes men feel a bit drowsy. For women a chemical is released that results in the desire to feel close to their partner.

Q: Should A Pre-Pubescent Boy/Girl Be Masturbating?

There’s no right or wrong answer here. Being comfortable with your body and exploring your sexuality is a good thing. By telling children they should NOT play with themselves you create an unhealthy view of sex, which can poison their adult relationships. However everything in moderation. It helps to have a discussion about these things and let your children know they can always come to you. At the very least you can let them know, there is a time and place for such things. It’s better you properly educate your children than ignoring the issue and them learning the wrong things.

Q: How Can A Girl Get A Vibrator Without Their Parents Or Family Finding Out?

Well, if you are underage it’s generally not recommended, however there are many everyday products that women have used as vibrators. (e.g. back & neck massagers) However if you are of age, there are still discrete choices for you. Today there are many vibrators disguised as something else like: lipstick, rubber ducky, cell phone, cone, etc.

Q: Can Female Masturbation Tighten Your Vagina?

No. While it can improve muscle tone, it won’t make much difference in tightening your vagina. If this is your desire, look into doing kegel exercises.

Q: Is There A Problem If Your Semen Doesn’t Shoot Out, And Only Dribbles?

Generally speaking, no. It’s different for different people. However if you are concerned feel free to discuss this with your doctor. They can discuss this with you in a more personal way regarding your health and other factors.

Q: Will Masturbation Hurt The First Time?

Generally speaking, no. It shouldn’t hurt the first time, and if it does, perhaps you are doing something wrong! Just take it nice and slow, and learn how your body reacts.

Q: Can Regular Masturbation Affect My Ability To Have Children Later?

No, masturbation does NOT have a direct affect on your ability to have children. However underwear choice is often something to keep in mind such that tighter underwear makes things warmer which isn’t as good for the sperm as say wearing boxers, which allow breathing room.

Q: How Far/Long Does Semen Usually Shoot?

It has been seen in men to range from trickling out, to shooting 1-3 feet. Some studies have shown that semen traveling out of the penis can go up to 27 MPH. Many feel that the force of ejaculation decreases with age, however it can be somewhat affected by his overall health, and the activity during orgasm… such that continued stimulation might yield a better result than stopping.

Q: Do Married Men Normally Masturbate?

Yes, men of all ages, both single and in a relationship masturbate. Some women may be concerned why he may masturbate if he has a partner. Well, sometimes he just wants to scratch that itch. However if you want you could become part of this masturbation by joining him, or give him something to masturbate about, or do it for him.

Q: What Are Blue Balls?

Blue balls is a condition typically found in young adolescent males, but can also be found in adults as well. It is similar to a cramp or ache in the testes (or testicles, balls, etc.). It occurs when there is prolonged stimulation of the penis without orgasm and ejaculation. Men can become aroused at any time without warning, and just the act of walking around or washing yourself is a form of stimulation. The cure? Masturbate! The release will put your body at ease.

Now you may be thinking this can only happen to men. SORRY! Women have something similar called pelvic congestion. They experience a heaviness and aching in the pelvic region. Again, the cure is masturbation.