What is OTK Spanking (AKA “over the knee spanking”) like?

Spanking for some is about bringing something extra to the relationship. Some are content with a light smack on the tush, while others completely indulge in whips, chains, tying each other up, and toys. So if you’re going to do these things just be safe and make sure you have a way to tell each other when it’s too much. Other than that, have fun!

Now if you’re into the whips, chains, tying each other up, and toys, and are now looking for something to add to the bedroom, then I’ve got something for you. It’s the most powerful male sex toy on the market and it’s called the Fleshlight. Men can use it alone, or during mutual masturbation (such as using toys on each other). So why not get something that’s designed to send a shiver up his spine?

• Spanking can take on many different forms.
• As a sign of authority (punishment)
• Playfully (congratulating a fellow teammate)
• Erotic

Many of us are aware of the first, authoritative. This form of spanking is typically found within parent-child, teacher student, master-slave, and guard-convict relationships. Spankings here represent a punishment designed to mold behavior.

Playful spankings are fairly common in today’s culture. We sometimes pat a friend on the butt when saying hello or good bye, when congratulating a teammate, or just another means of rough play. This type of spanking can typically be seen in the forming of bonds of friendship.

Erotic spankings are the third type. This type of spanking doesn’t need to stem from the other two. Erotic spankings can fall anywhere within a wide spectrum typically with a partner. So it can be anything from a soft sexually suggestive pat, to a welt on your partner’s butt as you fuck them as hard as possible.

Many ask why would you want to mix something painful like spanking with sex?

Well pleasure and pain have been argued as the same sensation, that just appears on different levels of the same spectrum. So, pleasure can be thought of as softer sensations, like a lover blowing in your ear or feeling their tongue graze your skin, while pain can be thought of as anything that breaks the threshold and is no longer considered pleasure like spanking someone too hard, when they only wanted a light patt on the butt.

So, some just have a higher threshold for pain so they can appreciate things like spankings as part of their sexual repertoire. What kinds of spankings are there?

• over the knees (OTK) or across the lap
• stooped over a chair or couch
• on hands and knees (bed or floor)
• kneeling on a bed or ottoman, stooped over with hands on the floor
• diaper position (genital exposure to enhance humiliation)
• bent under the arm of the spanker
• lying face down on a bed

But lets not forget spankings don’t have to only include your hand(s). You can spank someone with a hairbrush, paddle, belt, cane, whip,
switch, stick, gloves, ruler, etc.

Many enjoy spanking as part of role playing and enjoy playing a part. In the case of role playing it’s often about the desire to be dominant or submissive. So, spanking here is about trust and control. For others? It’s more about enjoying the contact.

Like any things, spanking can be a fun addition in the bedroom. But it helps to clearly explain what you want to get out of it. And at the same time you should be mindful of your partner/lover, so they aren’t hurt any more than they want. It’s a fine line and communication is the best thing.

• You can spank them in a house,
• You can spank them like a mouse
• You can spank them here or there
• You can spank them anywhere

So, I ask. What did the 5 fingers say to the ass?

SMACK!!

There’s nothing better than coming home after a long day to a nice warm fleshlight. I have had the chance to try out a few inserts and I have nothing but love for the fleshlight.

Fleshlight “Original”, Mouth

Fleshlite Mouth

Many have claimed this one to be the next best thing when it comes to getting head. I have to tell you, they’re not lying. This fleshlight is nice and smooth, and adjusting the cap and taking some nice deep strokes with it feels just like getting deep throated by your girlfriend. So, I definitely give it a thumbs up!

Fleshlight “Wonderwave”, Lady

Fleshlite Wonderweave Lady

This insert has been deemed the closest to vaginal sex. Now it’s true the waves are a little exaggerated, but that’s what makes it fun. Because it’s tighter than the original, those waves really do a job on your dick, stroking the shaft and vigorously plucking your head. This lady will have you screaming her name. Trust me!

Fleshlight “Ultra Tight”, Butt

Fleshlite Ultra Tight Butt

The ultra-tight butt is obviously the closet choice if you’re looking for something similar to anal sex. But you know, I think it’s actually better than anal sex in a way. You usually never want to say that about a sex toy, but this is anal sex we’re talking about. It’s very sensitive back there so you have to take it easy. But with the fleshlight? You can be as rough as you like, and it will keep pulling you back in for more. This is definitely one cum guzzling, lube abusing, dick pleasing, pleasure!

How To Use The Fleshlite

One technique I have been using an awful lot is the hands-free method. I mean don’t get me wrong. My hand still feels great, but the fleshlight has so much more to offer. Using a shoe is one of the hands free methods, but it gets a lil troublesome trying to keep it steady. This is where you slip the fleshlight into a shoe so it is angled up towards you. I suggest using a pillow or some clothes to help keep it steady. The mattress method seems to be a more successful hands free method. This is where you shove it between your mattress and fuck it til you’re begging for mercy. That’s right, until YOU beg for mercy. This is a great hands free method because you don’t have to worry about it moving around at all.

I start out my fun by letting my fleshlight soak in warm water, and then lubing it up. Then I place is between my mattress and frame, which is a perfect height for me to kneel down at. If you’re a lil short and need some help here? Try using a pillow or some clothes lying around to give you a little extra height.

Let me just say the orgasms are spectacular. It’s like an upgrade from using your hand. Your hand just can’t engulf you with the same warm wetness that the fleshlight can. That and once you start getting used to going to your fleshlight instead of your hand, your dick will wake up to sensations you never knew existed. I found after using the fleshlight for a while that my hand started to feel different. I was more sensitive to the grip I used. Not only that, but I’m blowing a much bigger load. The fleshlight is sucking me dry. What a mind blowing, spine tingling, legs shaking, eye rolling, body spasming, good time!