My experience with the Fleshlight has been a truly amazing one.

Like many men I was skeptical about owning a sex toy as this would be a first for me. So, I did a little digging and read about the Fleshlight and sex toys in general. While it’s true some are poorly designed, cheap trinkets, others are true marvels!

So after finally deciding to get one I thought it might be best to go into a toy shop and get the full experience. Luckily I chose Babeland. It was a nice experience because the business is owned and run by women who take pride in being knowledgeable about their products and making your shopping experience a pleasant one.

It truly was a toy store for adults. Very colorful with lots of toys on display that you can handle close up before making your purchase (which is always factory sealed). Some have different textures, colors, shapes, sizes, etc. So it helps to actually hold the item in your hand and get a sense for what you are about to buy.

I eventually chose the original Ice Mouth. I mean who doesn’t love a clear toy? Upon making my decision the saleswoman asked if I was familiar with cyber skin and how to take care of it. She explained how you should only use water based lubes on it, and a little corn starch if you want to return it to the same softness you found it in when you first buy it.

Unlike many sex shops more are taking care to make it a place where people can feel comfortable, make a purchase and even find educational materials.

I was extremely excited to get this new found WONDER home and try it out. Luckily it comes with a small sample of lube! So I opened it up, read everything carefully, and got it all warmed up.

Let me just say the experience was exhilarating! So warm, yet so slick. Close your eyes and it really feels as if you’re getting a blow job. Hey, your penis doesn’t know the difference!

But it doesn’t stop there. The more you play with it, the better it can become. You can experience with different positions, or speeds. It is a wonderful experience to know that this is ALL FOR YOU!

So, after a few months it was great. I now had a new appreciation for my hand because it was no longer the only tool in my arsenal.

But I thought it was time for an upgrade. So I proceeded to purchase the Mocha Wonder Wave.

Let me just tell you the delivery time feels like YEARS. You’re so paranoid about how long it will take and if anyone will intercept your mail and OUT you. Trust me… EVERYONE is counting the days.

Anyway it finally arrives. And let me say they did a FABULOUS job. The Lady orifice is so lifelike it’s SCARY! Even women have admitted how life-like it is, that one wished she had a penis just to give it a whirl.

The lips, the clit, and when you warm it up and apply lube? It almost feels like you’re fingering a woman. All that’s missing is obviously the rest of her body, lol.

But let me say, going from a normal to a super tight, in addition to the waves was a HUMBLING experience. I have to admit. On that day. The Fleshlight made me its bitch! Tighter, it really grabs hold of your cock, and the waves will literally push you over the edge. Easier on the way in, as you pump out it teases and flicks the head of your penis and the shaft as well. It was so much I had no clue what I was in for.

Needless to say I had a HAPPY ENDING!

Over the next few weeks I really spent time enjoying it and feeling every sensation. What a relaxing feeling to know that:

• you have something that feels so wonderful
• it is ready for you ANYTIME, no questions asked
• you can pleasure yourself as little or as much as you want
• it is safe in the sense that you can satisfy your sexual urges without worry of STIs/STDs
• you can get some practice and confidence as a virgin
• you can still satisfy yourself without cheating if you are away from your partner
• it is portable
• it’s shipped discreetly in a simple brown box with ILF as the only thing identifying it
• IT’S ALL FOR YOU!

Every boy learns at a young age how to masturbate. The Fleshlight is simply a natural extension of this. The male body is designed to receive GREAT pleasure from the female body. So, why not masturbate with a toy that closely emulates or enhances this experience? Of course no one is saying the Fleshlight should replace sex, but if you’re going to masturbate, why not get the MOST from it?

Honestly, no college fairing young man should be without one. Many of us have concerns about how long we can last and our technique. What better way to practice without the concerns of unwanted pregnancies and STDs/STIs ?

The Fleshlight is an inexpensive, and durable toy, that if properly maintained will give you YEARS of pleasure. Now think. If your partner is ever not in the mood, you can always rely on your fleshlight, or better yet… they may tell you to get comfortable while THEY use the fleshlight on YOU!

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Fleshlight

Now I am making progress with my new toys. I have been using these little beauties for just over a month now and I have reached the point where I can cum inside without ever using my hands directly on my cock. I know it sounds silly, but I am very excited and encouraged now. My next goal it to cum totally hands free.

I like the method where you wedge it between the mattress. I’m not totally there yet, but I’m getting closer every day. I can honestly say I can see the day when my cock will be fully RE-SENSITIZED. I honestly thought there was something wrong with me before now.

I thought I had ruined myself from ever being able to have an orgasm normally inside a woman. Thank you FLESHLIGHT!!! I have been telling my friends about this toy. Wow, I feel just like a kid again!

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That battle has always been going on at some level. When Madonna’s Sex was published some years ago, some library staffs condemned it, while others bought it and added it to non-circulating, by-request-only shelves. Every week we learn of cases in which conservatives demand removal of specific titles from the shelves of public libraries. Sometimes they get their way. Sometimes they don’t.

The Internet is bringing this conflict to a head. Allowed free access to library computers, mere children, properly motivated and with the necessary access information, can see and learn all sorts of things about the human body and its sexuality. And there’s the rub, if you will pardon the expression.

Mark Y. Herring, of Oklahoma Baptist University, writes in the May 1, 1998, issue of Library Journal, “If a great work can inspire courage, greatness and magnanimity, then bad ones can also provoke lust, rage, and parvanimity ….” (I would love to tell you what parvanimity means. I looked it up in the American Heritage Dictionary and the Living Webster Encyclopedic Dictionary of the English Language, and I can’t find it anywhere. If anyone knows what parvanimity means, please let me know.)

Another librarian, writes in that same issue, “We don’t put snuff films in the video section of the library.” Then she makes her point: “Why allow material offensive to the reasonable and rational person into the library just because it comes on the Internet?”

Cheryl Banick’s question, in effect, is “Why should anyone of any age have access to sex information just because they want to?” My question is, “Why shouldn’t they?”

I was a kid once, as interested in sex as anyone else my age–which is to say, not very. I remember that Michael Lowenthall and I met behind his sofa when we were six years old and rubbed our penises together. At the time I felt heat flashes that virtually took my breath away. But you know something? We soon grew tired of that and never bothered doing it again. We had other things to do. We climbed fences, chased each other across Newark’s garage roofs, ran through people’s gardens, explored the neighborhood.

Four or five years later, I discovered my father’s treasure trove of pornography. These were photos, many of them taken by him, mostly of my mother and he, in some cases the two of them together in sexual acts. Then, again, I felt the flush, the breathlessness. I’m sure I sprouted an erection, but I knew nothing of masturbation.

Those photos remained in that same cabinet even after I left for college at age 18, but I perused them only twice more, briefly, curious about the secret play my parents were involved in; also, even more, the strange things that I felt in my body at observing them. But I wasn’t yet ready for sex, and soon became caught up in other matters. I was, in a sense, educating myself in ideal fashion, sating my curiosity.

What’s wrong with young people sating their curiosity about sex? How dare any educated person equate that to a snuff film in which someone is murdered?

Here’s the line in the sand. Is sex–the knowledge, portrayal and practice of it–good, positive, and celebrative? Or is it to be equated with “rage, and parvanimity,” with “snuff films” and that which is “offensive to the reasonable and rational person”? Ultimately, we are not only defending the First Amendment, but the rightness and naturalness of the body and its sexuality.

Don’t let the spin doctors succeed in their deceit. This isn’t about kids–have you seen any serious efforts to protect youngsters from movies about chain saw killings and other depictions of stomach-churning violence? Sex is being vilified here. That’s what this conflict is all about, and whether or not our children will someday escape the sexual hypocrisy and shame our generation has borne.

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Then, things changed. You’ve seen those baggy shorts and baggy shins, everything sold in one size–large. The most popular teenage garment on earth would be burlap sacks if anyone manufactured them with holes for heads and arms. Poet and novelist Kevin Esser captured the problem and the longing for the good old days in a poem published in Volume III, Number 2 of Gayme:

Too late for these boys to save themselves now.
Something honest and beautiful has already been stolen,
a generation has already been turned against itself.
Wait, perhaps, for the next millennium
to see boys once again embrace their own loveliness,
to see them strip away the ugly layers of suspicion
and phobia and erotic denial.
Wait for that distant day as a small step back
toward a freedom that once glowed briefly,
but joyously like a bold renaissance sun.

Most teenagers today in the United States and England and to a lesser extent elsewhere seem to have basically two choices when it comes to their sexuality: They can deny it with baggy clothes and be forced into a life of hypocrisy through shameful rather than celebrative solo sex; or they can express their sexuality in inappropriate and illegal ways.

Our local newspaper recently reported about a 15-year-old boy who was sent to prison for the attempted rape of an 11-year-old girl. I hate rape. It is as blasphemous as committing murder with a crucifix. So what alternative does our society give that kid? It says abstain. Last year the Pope condemned masturbation. Society condemns fooling around with another guy. And forget about an adult partner altogether. Any man who would think about having sex with a kid today should have his head examined. One mother actually said she’d have preferred the pederast to have murdered her son rather than have sex with him. Another mother got off virtually free after murdering her son’s abuser in front of a courtroom full of witnesses.

So, what’s the answer? This sexually needy teen male thought it might be rape. If these kids were starving for food instead of sex, the decent people of our society would give them feasts. We’re not a selfish people; we’re generous as can be. Instead, they’re starving for sex, and we offer them sermons instead of solutions. Why? Because this God-given appetite for sex is one we think they shouldn’t have. It’s immoral. It’s sinful.

But as Ann Landers wrote last December (1997) in a repeat of the column on masturbation that won her the first annual Golden Phallus Award, “Sex drive is the strongest human drive after hunger. It’s nature’s way of perpetuating the human race. Males reach their sexual peak as early as seventeen. There must be an outlet. I’m recommending self-gratification or mutual masturbation, whatever it takes to release the sexual energy. This is a sane and safe alternative to intercourse, not only for teenagers but also for older men and women who have lost their partners. I do not want to hear from clergymen telling me it’s a sin. The sin is making people feel guilty about responding to this basic, fundamental human drive.”

Let’s help kids to start feeling good about feeling good. Let’s tell them sex is okay, and then we can begin telling them how to do it safely and responsibly.

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2. The right to sexual entertainment, freely available in the marketplace, including sexually explicit materials dealing with the full range of sexual behavior.

3. The right not to be exposed to sexual material or behavior.

4. The right to sexual self-determination.

5. The right to seek out and engage in consensual sexual activity.

6. The right to engage in sexual acts or activities of any kind whatsoever, providing they do not involve non-consensual acts, violence, constraints, coercion, or fraud.

7. The right to be free of persecution, condemnation, discrimination, or societal intervention in private sexual behavior.

8. The recognition by society that every person, partnered or unpartnered, has the right to the pursuit of a satisfying consensual socio-sexual life free from political, legal or religious interference and that there need to be mechanisms in society where the opportunities of socio-sexual activities are available to the following: disabled persons; chronically ill persons; those incarcerated in prisons, hospitals or institutions; those disadvantaged because of age, lack of physical attractiveness, or lack of social skills; the poor; and the lonely.

9. The basic right of all persons who are sexually dysfunctional to have available non-judgmental sexual health care.

10. The right to control conception.

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What is OTK Spanking (AKA “over the knee spanking”) like?

Spanking for some is about bringing something extra to the relationship. Some are content with a light smack on the tush, while others completely indulge in whips, chains, tying each other up, and toys. So if you’re going to do these things just be safe and make sure you have a way to tell each other when it’s too much. Other than that, have fun!

Now if you’re into the whips, chains, tying each other up, and toys, and are now looking for something to add to the bedroom, then I’ve got something for you. It’s the most powerful male sex toy on the market and it’s called the Fleshlight. Men can use it alone, or during mutual masturbation (such as using toys on each other). So why not get something that’s designed to send a shiver up his spine?

• Spanking can take on many different forms.
• As a sign of authority (punishment)
• Playfully (congratulating a fellow teammate)
• Erotic

Many of us are aware of the first, authoritative. This form of spanking is typically found within parent-child, teacher student, master-slave, and guard-convict relationships. Spankings here represent a punishment designed to mold behavior.

Playful spankings are fairly common in today’s culture. We sometimes pat a friend on the butt when saying hello or good bye, when congratulating a teammate, or just another means of rough play. This type of spanking can typically be seen in the forming of bonds of friendship.

Erotic spankings are the third type. This type of spanking doesn’t need to stem from the other two. Erotic spankings can fall anywhere within a wide spectrum typically with a partner. So it can be anything from a soft sexually suggestive pat, to a welt on your partner’s butt as you fuck them as hard as possible.

Many ask why would you want to mix something painful like spanking with sex?

Well pleasure and pain have been argued as the same sensation, that just appears on different levels of the same spectrum. So, pleasure can be thought of as softer sensations, like a lover blowing in your ear or feeling their tongue graze your skin, while pain can be thought of as anything that breaks the threshold and is no longer considered pleasure like spanking someone too hard, when they only wanted a light patt on the butt.

So, some just have a higher threshold for pain so they can appreciate things like spankings as part of their sexual repertoire. What kinds of spankings are there?

• over the knees (OTK) or across the lap
• stooped over a chair or couch
• on hands and knees (bed or floor)
• kneeling on a bed or ottoman, stooped over with hands on the floor
• diaper position (genital exposure to enhance humiliation)
• bent under the arm of the spanker
• lying face down on a bed

But lets not forget spankings don’t have to only include your hand(s). You can spank someone with a hairbrush, paddle, belt, cane, whip,
switch, stick, gloves, ruler, etc.

Many enjoy spanking as part of role playing and enjoy playing a part. In the case of role playing it’s often about the desire to be dominant or submissive. So, spanking here is about trust and control. For others? It’s more about enjoying the contact.

Like any things, spanking can be a fun addition in the bedroom. But it helps to clearly explain what you want to get out of it. And at the same time you should be mindful of your partner/lover, so they aren’t hurt any more than they want. It’s a fine line and communication is the best thing.

• You can spank them in a house,
• You can spank them like a mouse
• You can spank them here or there
• You can spank them anywhere

So, I ask. What did the 5 fingers say to the ass?

SMACK!!

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Fleshlight “Original”, Mouth

Fleshlite Mouth

Many have claimed this one to be the next best thing when it comes to getting head. I have to tell you, they’re not lying. This fleshlight is nice and smooth, and adjusting the cap and taking some nice deep strokes with it feels just like getting deep throated by your girlfriend. So, I definitely give it a thumbs up!

Fleshlight “Wonderwave”, Lady

Fleshlite Wonderweave Lady

This insert has been deemed the closest to vaginal sex. Now it’s true the waves are a little exaggerated, but that’s what makes it fun. Because it’s tighter than the original, those waves really do a job on your dick, stroking the shaft and vigorously plucking your head. This lady will have you screaming her name. Trust me!

Fleshlight “Ultra Tight”, Butt

Fleshlite Ultra Tight Butt

The ultra-tight butt is obviously the closet choice if you’re looking for something similar to anal sex. But you know, I think it’s actually better than anal sex in a way. You usually never want to say that about a sex toy, but this is anal sex we’re talking about. It’s very sensitive back there so you have to take it easy. But with the fleshlight? You can be as rough as you like, and it will keep pulling you back in for more. This is definitely one cum guzzling, lube abusing, dick pleasing, pleasure!

How To Use The Fleshlite

One technique I have been using an awful lot is the hands-free method. I mean don’t get me wrong. My hand still feels great, but the fleshlight has so much more to offer. Using a shoe is one of the hands free methods, but it gets a lil troublesome trying to keep it steady. This is where you slip the fleshlight into a shoe so it is angled up towards you. I suggest using a pillow or some clothes to help keep it steady. The mattress method seems to be a more successful hands free method. This is where you shove it between your mattress and fuck it til you’re begging for mercy. That’s right, until YOU beg for mercy. This is a great hands free method because you don’t have to worry about it moving around at all.

I start out my fun by letting my fleshlight soak in warm water, and then lubing it up. Then I place is between my mattress and frame, which is a perfect height for me to kneel down at. If you’re a lil short and need some help here? Try using a pillow or some clothes lying around to give you a little extra height.

Let me just say the orgasms are spectacular. It’s like an upgrade from using your hand. Your hand just can’t engulf you with the same warm wetness that the fleshlight can. That and once you start getting used to going to your fleshlight instead of your hand, your dick will wake up to sensations you never knew existed. I found after using the fleshlight for a while that my hand started to feel different. I was more sensitive to the grip I used. Not only that, but I’m blowing a much bigger load. The fleshlight is sucking me dry. What a mind blowing, spine tingling, legs shaking, eye rolling, body spasming, good time!

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• Caught in the act?
• Caught wanking?
• Caught polishing your pearl?
• Caught masturbating?

This is something that worries most people as we feel masturbating is something that should be done in privacy. It is this fear that causes us to develop the habit of hiding our sexuality and becoming ashamed of it. We do it in the dark, or turn on the stereo or tv to drown out the noise.

But what is the consequence if you are:

• caught wanking
• caught beating around the bush

Usually the person who catches you IN THE ACT is just as embarrassed if not MORESO. We know that we all masturbate, so there’s no big secret in that regard. If you are just caught by anyone they are usually too embarrassed to say anything. But some might try to hide their embarrassment by making a scene and putting it all on you.

Parents and a lover or spouse take a different approach though. Parents never want to see their children as adults so they tell kids not to masturbate, that it’s bad for them. Some avoid the topic altogether. Now a lover or spouse? They definitely approach this in a different manner. You lover or spouse can be aroused and want to watch or join in, or even become upset because they worry how this might affect their sex life. We may not want to but it’s best to discuss it with your spouse or lover. People have different approaches to this, and it’s best to know. I mean if you can have sex with them what could it hurt to discuss masturbation and how you both feel about it?

For some the thrill of getting caught makes everything more exciting. Your heart is racing, and everything feels more vibrant. You can ear every creak in the floor, and you sense of tough is heightened as well. So for those people this can transfer into their sex life as they like to have sex with a partner in public places. The idea of sharing this experience with someone with the added thrill of possibly getting caught just drives them wild. Because really. What’s the worst that can happen? They catch you and tell you to cut that out? Or just leave you alone to finish?

For some the thrill of getting caught makes everything more exciting. Your heart is racing, and everything feels more vibrant. You can ear every creak in the floor, and you sense of tough is heightened as well. So for those people this can transfer into their sex life as they like to have sex with a partner in public places. The idea of sharing this experience with someone with the added thrill of possibly getting caught just drives them wild. Because really. What’s the worst that can happen? They catch you and tell you to cut that out? Or just leave you alone to finish?

For some the thrill of getting caught makes everything more exciting. Your heart is racing, and everything feels more vibrant. You can ear every creak in the floor, and you sense of tough is heightened as well. So for those people this can transfer into their sex life as they like to have sex with a partner in public places. The idea of sharing this experience with someone with the added thrill of possibly getting caught just drives them wild. Because really. What’s the worst that can happen? They catch you and tell you to cut that out? Or just leave you alone to finish?

But we need to relax. There is nothing wrong with a few healthy strokes. The consequences while embarrassing, are never as bad as we think. So, if you’re in the comfort of your home here are some things to remember:

1. LOCK the door. Make sure it’s locked and not just closed
2. Make sure you have something handy for clean up (e.g. tissues)
3. Grab something to set the mood (music, porn, candles, etc.)
4. Select something to drown out the noise if you have roommates or neighbors to worry about
5. Relax… and have fun

Now to end things off on a light note. Here’s a few fun masturbating phrases:

Masturbation Slang

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ADULTERY – Illegal in 28 states including: AL, AZ, CA, CO, FL, GA, ID, IL, KS, MD, MA, MI, MN, MS, NE, NV, NH, NY, NC, ND, OK, RI, SC, TN, UT, VA, WV, WI

UNMARRIED SEX — Illegal in 9 states including: GA, ID, MA, MS, NC, RI, SC, UT, VA

LIVING TOGETHER UNMARRIED — Illegal in 32 states including: AK, AZ, AR, CA, DE, FL, HI, ID, IL, IN, IA, KS, KY, MI, MN, MO, MT, NE, NV, NH, NY, ND, OH, OR, PA, SD, UT, WA, WV, WI, WY and Washington, D.C.

PROSTITUTION — Illegal in all states except for Nevada

PORNOGRAPHY — Illegal in 28 states including: AR, CO, CT, GA, HI, ID, IA, LA, ME, MI, MN, MO, MT, ND, NE, NV, NJ, OH, OK, OR, RI, SD, TX, VA, WA, WV, WI, WY

CHILD PORNOGRAPHY – Illegal in 36 states including: AL, AK, AR, CA, DE, FL, GA, ID, IN, KS, KY, LA, MD, MA, MN, MO, NE, NV, NJ, NH, NM, NC, ND, OH, OK, OR, PA, SC, SD, TN, TX, UT, VA, WA, WV, WI

VISIBLE ERECTION (even if clothed) — Illegal in 19 states including: AZ, FL, GA, ID, IN, MA, MS, NE, NV, NY, OH, OK, OR, SD, TN, UT, WA, WI, VT

ORAL SEX (with opposite & same sex) — Illegal in 17 states including: AL, AZ, FL, GA, ID, KS, LA, MA, MN, MS, NC, OK, OR, RI, SC, UT, and Washington, D.C.

ORAL SEX (with same sex only) — Illegal in 7 states including: AR, MD, MT, MO, NV, TN, TX

ANAL SEX (with opposite & same sex) — Illegal in 15 states including: AL, AZ, FL, GA, ID, LA, MN, MS, NC, OK, RI, SC, UT, VA, and Washington, D.C.

ANAL SEX (with same sex only) — Illegal in 9 states including: AR, KS, MD, MA, MO, MT, NV, TN, TX

AGE OF CONSENT
13 – 1 state (NM)
14 – 3 states (HI, IA, MS)
15 – 2 states (CT, VA)
16 – 26 states (AL, AR, DE, GA, ID, IL, IN, KS, KY, MD, MA, MI, MN, MT, NV, NC, ND, OH, OK, PA, RI, SC, SD, VT, WV & Washington, D.C.)
17 – 5 states (LA, MO, NE, NY, TX)
18 – 10 states (AK, AZ, CA, CO, FL, NH, NJ, TN, UT, WI)

[The above was adapted from an article in a 1993 issue of Passionate Living magazine. Laws change. If you have more up-to-date information, e-mail us.]

Masturbating Could Be Illegal, Too–
According to the book Sexual Behavior and the Law, it is illegal in the states of Indiana and Wyoming to “encourage a person to masturbate.” Granted, the book by Samuel G. Kling is old (1965) but we will bet the laws are still on the books. If you know of the status of these laws, let us know. We’d hate to be presumed guilty of encouraging anyone living in Indiana or Wyoming to masturbate! If you do it in those states, and you’re cought, simply say it was your idea and please deny that SOLO had anything to do with your wicked self-pleasuring.

Too Many Dildos Are Illegal in Texas!
Ownership of one or two dildos, even six, is fine in Texas. But if you have more than that, you may be arrested! That’s right. It’s apparently illegal to own more than six dildos in that state — and in Georgia, too, we understand. The presumption is that if you have more than six you are going to sell the things. Dildos are classified by the Texas law as “obscene devices” which are illegal to sell. The code defines “obscene devices” as “a device, including a dildo or artificial vagina, designed or marketed as useful, primarily, for the stimulation of human genital organs.” They are considered “dangerous” and courts have held the law is proper because it is in the state’s interest to protect order (order??) and morality. There have been prosecutions under this law! It sure is gratifying that the lawmakers are diligently passing these laws to protect family values in Texas, in the heartland of conservative, Bible-belt America! We think it’s yet another example of the self-righteous trying to regulate the sexual expression of others. (Source: Houston Press, Nov. 18, 1993)

Several other states ban sale of vibrators!
Shocking intrusion into our bedrooms! Click to read this article

Also, there’s a brand new book out which documents the history of vibrators. The Technology of Orgasm by Rachel Maines (Johns Hopkins University Press, 1999) has written a fascinating account. Read about it on the Johns Hopkins University Press website.

Are There More Silly Sex Laws?
We are sure there are. If you have the text of some local or state laws, send them in. And here’s a warning: Some self-righteous lawmakers in state legislatures and Congress are still at it. Dumb laws regulating sexual behavior are still being written and some of them, unfortunately, are being passed and enforced. We need to fight for our rights; write your senators and representatives about your feelings on bad legislation and encourage their support of good bills.

We hope to use this website to keep you informed about legislative matters concerning sexual rights.

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You want to be very careful what you choose to masturbate with. Many seek to use simple household products to masturbate. This can have both it’s up and downs. Some things to avoid are:

• Powerful electric appliances such as vacuums
• Using fruits and vegetables that can break off or cause a rash/infection from vigorous use
• Hard rigid surfaces that can damage your genitals and desensitize them
• Sharing sex toys (this can pass along any STDs the person may have)
• Using hot or cold objects can cause immediate damage or desensitize your genitals

Masturbation is fun, but it’s important to be safe. This sounds boring but it’s true. There are many horror stories online about people who have horribly mutilated their genitals due to masturbation with unusual objects.

So if you’re going to masturbate here are some things to remember:

• Lube: It moisturizes the skin, and keeps you from rubbing yourself RAW
• Toys: They’re fun but make sure it’s intended for masturbation.
• Try and find a nice private place. You can hurt yourself if you’re startled.
• Mutual masturbation can be fun, and is considered safe sex. But it does lead to other things.

So be safe and enjoy yourself. Masturbation can be fun alone or with a partner. But don’t do anything on the spur of the moment that might damage your body.

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